Dive #11, was newly certified and wanted to get wet, so thought I'd explore the local lake, didn't have a buddy, so I booked a spot on a little dive boat that runs on the weekends. The captain and DM assumed I would be diving solo, I told them that NO I wanted a buddy, so they hooked me up with the DM's wife, who was diving simply to get enough dives to get her Master C-Card, we went through all the pre dive planning including lost buddy. She was a bullet. 5 minutes into the dive, I stopped to pick up a beer can and put it in my mesh bag, looked up and she was gone, I followed her silt trail for a few seconds, stopped looked around for a little while longer and surfaced and let the boat know that I'd lost my buddy, they didn't seem concerned in the least, after a minute on the surface they spotted her bubbles moving back towards the boat, when they passed me they told me to descend and join her, I never did find her again uw but finished my dive regardless, she never did surface for lost buddy. During the surface interval I accidentally flung my mask/snorkel overboard, I took a couple bearings to landmarks and spent the next dive with a borrowed mask, solo, searching for my mask, which I found. Max depth on both dives was 28'.
#33-35: My son (13) was newly certified, did his checkout dives from a boat in Maui, after he got his JOW C-Card we did some Maui shore diving, it was an absolute joy seeing my son scuba. But the parental instincts really kick in with your child diving with you and although he was my buddy, I thought of it more as solo dives, how would I deal with an issue/emergency with him or me, he had absolutely no fear, and was already a same ocean type of buddy and rarely checked on me, probably because I'm his dad, but I couldn't rely on him (not that I rely heavily on my buddy) to help me out of a scrape. I'm sure over time he'll be a great buddy.
I've thought about diving solo (on purpose), but won't do so until I get a pony and a few more dives under the belt.
Garrett