Frankly, hair management was the most difficult skill for me to master.
Mine is 6 - 8" lopped off when I begin to sit on it and here in the tropics has a personality all it's own in addition to growing faster than weeds. Although fine, there is a ton of it, it absoutely refuses to be contained and tangles like a thing alive. I am not moving and I don't see it move either, yet for 10 years now, is has never been free of tangles.
Point is I feel your pain on all you've said and marvel at the flowing locks and simple pony tails people; they must be in another universe or something to be able to do that.
What I do, what works the best for me:
The very best is two French braids down the back but I cannot do that myself.
Since my niece doesn't visit often enough:
Tight as can, French braid with only small sections from the very tip top of forehead. Biggest challenge is the bottom can tie itself into a knot near to impossible to untie so I'm careful to separate the 3 main sections every 2 twines. I finger comb in the tiny new section and twist them round as I twine them in the braid as tight as I can bear. My arms are about to die by the time I'm done with a gazillion very small sections twined together. If it is a tad too tight, it's good to go.
Hit it all up w/spray on conditioner just until dripping, lot of attention to back of neck area and the ends.
Next is a (no metal) fat elastic, just at the nape and rather too lose and too low for my taste. Too tight and too loose, too high and too low, and braid just
shoves mask off.
Next hook on the
Hair Glove, the foot long kind (not seeing that on the site. Got them at my LDS) and snap it together. Again, put that up too high and shoves mask right off. Too low and shoves mask off.
The coup de gra
was a hood.
Mine is very very light wt, not neoprene or too thin and slippery like a DoRag. I can't keep a DoRag on my head for more than a minute dry, no clue how the other people do (that swear by them.)
I too dislike a chin strap,
anytime, and this is a balaclava hood. Does nothing to improve my appearance however I don't look where I don't want to see.
I'm in Hawaii and have not felt hot, actually completely forget about it. That says a lot, I am easily annoyed. Did feel real silly for quite a while but the success wins hands down.
With the hood mask still slides, worse if I get my tank a bit too high and very little when in the right spot for trim and
nothing like it slid all around without the hood (and every strap out there.) Somewhere around 40 min usually one reach back and slide mask strap back down a inch or two.
All of this is after some trial and error finding out exactly how the strap (the rubber or whatever that came with the mask) and hood and hair move with each other and finding the sweet spot where the hood has to start at
to stay at. Including how to don to get it there, contain the wisps and not interfere with the mask I have a small head, maybe not so much a problem with normal people.You would think it was life support how carefully I put on my hood. Actually the first trial was
it, just had to figure out what I did again.
As exhausting as this seems it's not so bad once past the never ending braid part.
And has been working well enough it has been over two years now with out further experiments attempting to improve.
Oh, putting on the Hair Glove the first time was an ordeal and I mean all that effort and finally had to give up (and sweating like a pig.)
The first snap at the thickest hair is a doosey yet I suspect for a partner is no big deal. After the first one the only challenge is training fingers to find the correct snap match. Unless just
knowing it's 1 snap off wouldn't drive you nuts like it does me.