I know them when I see them at the dive site:
Their gear isn't scattered hither and yon, they work from a compact area and their gear is staged in a manner that will minimize dirt/sand exposure and tripping hazards.
They watch their surroundings and notice problems in the gearing up stage. When they see a potential problem with another diver they diplomatically and humbly address it. They know their gear and take the time to know their buddy's gear as well as paying attention to what other divers in the area are wearing "just in case."
Good divers will abort or change their dive plan when needed and they encourage their buddy's to do the same.
They answer questions and offer tips when asked and make other divers feel at ease with their calm and confident aura.
They are beautiful to watch in the water, you can LOOK at them and see that this is their element.
Their gear does not dangle and their kicks don't stir up the bottom or damage the dive site. They know where their body and their gear is in relation to anything that is near them.
They monitor and communicate with their buddy regularly, staying where they can see each other and easily reach one another in an emergency.
Good divers encourage others to be the best they can be and they help any way they can. They strive to improve their own skills and truly want to be the best diver they can be.
A good diver sets a good example for non-divers. They leave the dive site cleaner than they found it and they clean up their "camp" and the adjoining area.
Those divers are the one I admire and respect, they can have hundreds or thousands of dives or they can be new divers but I always know them when I see them.
Ber :lilbunny: