I’ve been told the reasons why its considered “acceptable” and I’m on the side that disagrees. Its my belief that in a class the instructor should be setting a good example for the student. Showing them a way around the always verify your exit rule isnt a good example. Especially considering the recent death in manatee. On top of that the op said they pulled the reel from the ear then exited. They now have no continuous guideline. If they left the reel then exited the eye then maybe its a little more ok. Add to that the example yesterday in mexico where a Caribbean earthquake made some crazy conditions of severe water elevation shofts (supposedly up to 10 ft) and random siltouts similar to a collapse. An instructor should take those two examples and explain you never know what the hell can happen outside of your control and ensure they teach something universally acceptable. If yesterday in mexico you planned to exit a different cenote than the entrance and those tidal shifts ocurrer, you could be in for trouble with an unverified exit, especially if you pulled your primary.This was actually a hot topic of discussion after Reggie's memorial service when the divers went out to raise a beer in his memory. The discussion included a number of the living legends and most prominent instructors in the field. I was mostly in another conversation, but what I was catching what that (1) they agree that it's a philosophical problem with the rules, but (2) it seems to be a well-established exception.
It seems possible to rules-lawyer the issue by thinking of the dive in legs. Leg #1 is going in through the Ear, dropping bottles, heading out, and returning to the same spot - you're now at a verified exit. You check your gas consumption and recalculate thirds for a linear/reciprocal trip. You now embark on Leg #2 prepared to return to the Ear if need be, but can also exercise the option to exit at the Eye.
I am in no way an instructor and do agree that the practice is likely very safe 99.99999% of the time. But in a course, the instructor has to set a good example.