We use our yoke regulators on our HP130s all the time.
The 130 is a great tank. It's a little heavy, but I can manage them, and it's enough gas to do just about anything you can want to do outside of staged decompression diving. You're a big enough guy that the weight of the tank probably isn't going to bother you, so I can't see any way that 130s wouldn't be a good decision. We own two of them, but most of my friends who still dive single tanks have them, too. The only downside is that they are expensive, and that your 5'5" wife may or may not ever want to use them. (It's handy to have a stable of tanks that both of you can use, because there may be a day when she can or wants to go diving and you don't, and her tanks are in the shop getting filled.)
The one caveat is that a full 130 is pretty negative (11 pounds or so) and with wetsuit compression, you could end up having to swim up a lot of gear in the event of a BC failure. If you go with the 130, I'd probably carry a lift bag as redundant buoyancy. Chris will be able to go through all of this with you in detail and help you a bunch -- you have a good connection there.