Grand Cayman and Curacao would still be my best bet for you.
I concur.
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Grand Cayman and Curacao would still be my best bet for you.
Cur in general is easier than Bon but after you described you and your divers issues and experiences, shore diving, what there is of it, in GC will be easier. Turtle Reef and Lighthouse Pt have ladders and I believe Eden Rock/Grotto is the same.Cur significantly easier than Bonaire?