The problem with most $300 dive computers is the RGBM algorithm. There are a few choices that provide Buhlmann ZHL-16c besides Shearwater.I believe, from my experience, that the majority of LDS personnel "push" what they believe is best for the customer exactly like what people here on SB do to those that come in here and ask for advice. Most folks here on SB "push" what they have been using because they think it is the best for them and thus others should use it too, not much different from people working at an LDS, just look at the SW cult clan here. These "devotees" to SW, push the over $1000 computer to people who are better served with a $300 dive computer.
BP/W are typically cheaper than jacket style BCDs. A harness is a harness. If one wants a "deluxe" harness and wants to do so inexpensively, they can buy the parts in their fabric store and take the webbing to a shoe repair shop and finish for them (my local shoe shop charges $6 a stitch).For those that object to LDS using the "life support equipment" line, many of you use the "getting into technical diving in the future" to justify their advice to buy very expensive dive computers or other equipment just because they are using it and push the others to use it. Different words, same motive and result.
The difference in backplates is all about machine time (as that is what is expensive) and sometimes finish (the Deep 6 BPs have the most attractive finish/logo). Wings vary on material, but just like a jacket style BCD, it will last an incredibly long time if properly maintained. If something breaks, then only that component needs to be replaced. It is cheaper to replace a wing than it is to replace a BCD. To replace a harness is incredibly cheap with new webbing.
For divers that need a significant amount of weight due to exposure protection (including bioprene), having weight on ones back is a nice way to distribute weight. We can argue whether one dives a balanced rig, or ditches weight at depth or the surface, but having some weight is certainly a plus. There are ditchable pockets. I think Hollis has the nicest system for both ditchable and nonditachable weight, but that's just starting to approach overpriced BCD prices.