LOL, I'm more star wars...
Thanks all for the replies... I think I really just needed to get it off my chest more than anything, I just finished an e-mail back to my bud, and basically explained the skill very little more, explained why I've gone with the config I have, and ended by I accept that you might not approve of my gear...maybe we should just agree to dissagree on this subject... also explained a little of the background of the system, as being a time proven config and all... etc.
I like your last post there Mo2vation... very nice... Though I'm not up to the standards you mention, nor is this buddy at the low end standards... we both fall somewhere in the middle, with me JUST starting to practice horizontal ascents... and been doing horizontal descents for sometime now...
The cost thing is very good point... THOUGH to be honest I have 2 pairs of fins, both of which I want to ditch, I don't have the UBER Jet type fins yet

I have Aeris Velocities (which work ok with the types of kicks) and Tusa X-Pert Zooms, the Aeris were my first fins, and the Tusa's were well, a solution to a problem (not knowing any kics besides dolphin, and flutter, and flutter being so crappy with air consumption, and my legs) prior to my decision to "come to the darkside" even partially... so I still dive the splits mostly, though I'm starting to use the aeris more since I can do modified frogs and reverse with them... though being the moron I am

I did a surface swim with them doing flutter, and about killed myself, just learned I should do modified frog with them even at the surface...DOH!
But I KNOW my BC (BP/Wings) cost less...
Hmm Cost comparisson analysis...
Halcyon 36# Pioneer wing, BP, Harness (the Cadilac shall we say of BP/wings, or even the BMW, Porche, whtever)
Vs.
My buddies SeaQUest Black Diamond...
My BC, totaled at $555.00... His well, I'm sure over $600, probalby closer to 700-800 (thoose things are SPENDY)
Regs, not a clue how much his cost...
Dive lights (heres where the logic could fail, canister lights are by far spendier, however that much equally more are they better)
I have a $70 C8 to hold me until I have everything else, at which time it will go bye bye for a canister (LONG future)
He uses a $250 Light Cannon, which was beautiful on a night dive, but to be honest IMO SUCKS durring the day, you can't hardly see the beam unless shinning in a hole (unlike a canister, or my light even)
On some of the stuff yeah it's less expensive, but better by far... Speaking of which, he said something about breaking the backpack in his BC...hmm surpise, platick backplate type thing, broke, SS backplate, likely to break (not very), something to do with the plate and/or right wing, not sure if it was 2 seperate occasions/breakages, or one.
Anyways... I'm SO gratefull to all you guys for the support, and advice, esspecially in opening my eyes to DIR (though you didn't do it by yourselves, other people/sites did, as well as me finnaly realizing one of the core foundations of DIR was something I belived all along on an unrelated activity) I belive for a different sport/activity that you should always do skills the same way every time, regardless... so it only made perfect sence my diving should be the same (this is what finnaly pushed me to the darkside) having the realization that was one of the core foundations of DIR, and that having a DIR type rig meant having all my stuff the same regardless of what diving I'm doing, except for minor changes such as doubles/singles an OOA situation is the same at 10' as 300' as with a wreck or cave... that and the fact I already decided I liked the BC, so why not try out the other stuff, so many people saying all of it was good, including the BC (which I agreed with at that point) couldn't be too far off...
Will Out!