SeaYoda
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Defiant or DEVIANT ????Diver0001:... Maybe we're even better off thinking of it as a defiant behaviour...
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Defiant or DEVIANT ????Diver0001:... Maybe we're even better off thinking of it as a defiant behaviour...
A simpler way to phrase is that both buddy diving vs. solo diving, and DIR vs non-DIR diving in many ways come down to "safest vs. safe enough".
TSandM:This was the crux of my discussion with Peter last night. I'm risk-averse, and he's not.
If a new diver came on and asked the DIR contingent if they would solo dive under "x" conditions, I would sincerely hope that that person would get a bunch of thoughtful, sincere answers about why people would NOT make that choice (and some of our writers who are identified as being in the DIR camp DO solo dive on occasion, and hopefully they would talk about why). Just as most of the answers I've gotten on this thread have been honest responses from people explaining that there are rewards to diving alone that make it worth the increased risk in their eyes.
That's again the mantra of DIR, you assume your husband is a risk taker because he's not interested in DIR . That is a large danger to you, because you are DIR you asume you are much more risk free and that isn't always the case.TSandM:This was the crux of my discussion with Peter last night. I'm risk-averse, and he's not.
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TSandM:This was the crux of my discussion with Peter last night. I'm risk-averse, and he's not.
If a new diver came on and asked the DIR contingent if they would solo dive under "x" conditions, I would sincerely hope that that person would get a bunch of thoughtful, sincere answers about why people would NOT make that choice (and some of our writers who are identified as being in the DIR camp DO solo dive on occasion, and hopefully they would talk about why). Just as most of the answers I've gotten on this thread have been honest responses from people explaining that there are rewards to diving alone that make it worth the increased risk in their eyes.