Had we be alone (if I have had a problem in a 20m dive), my husband would have grabed my BC because we have learned that it is the first thing to do when someone requires assistance (if it is not needed, you let go afterwards). We have both had dozens of pool sessions to get this kind of automatisms.divenut2001:Reread the original post Derek, they were NOT students in a class and they were NOT with an instructor. But I doubt very seriously if her husband even thought about grabing her BC, the DM did that as a precaution. If diving by themselves they would have just ascended after calling the dive.
We were not students and not with an instructor, true. But our rating says that we are able to handle ourself at these depth (including to recognise a problem and signal it) but not to assist some one who has a problem, hence the necessity of a N4.