emcbride81
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markfm:I think relaxed and alert actually go together. I find it peaceful, yet I am more aware of my surroundings, time that I'm not spending checking on my buddy.
A good dive with a good buddy is super, but sometimes just getting away from it all is nice
I agree with that...well put...I think the relaxing part comes from not being concerned with staying with a buddy, or making sure they are ok. I think we all have a sense of self-confidence that we can handle our own situations if an emergency should arise. If you throw another variable (buddy) in there it does change things. Now, granted, there is something to be said for sharing a memorable dive with someone, especially at the bar that night! I would never turn down a buddy dive, but I like the freedom of diving when I want without looking around for a stranger to pair up with.
I remember reading in an article about tec divers that tec philosophy states that even though you may be diving with a buddy or group, you are expected to be self-reliant. Why leave that kind of discipline to only the hard cores? If we all dove with that mentality we would be better off IMO.