If anything you were too polite and deferred to the DM status to act. Whereas, in hindsight you know you should've acted. Lesson learned!
Like we said in the Marine Corp, our 14th General Order was (there are only 13 official General Orders); "To walk my post from flank to flank and take no ***** from any rank. (Don't be intimitated by rank: Do what you gotta do)" When you know what needs to get done; gitter' done.
I can say I've learned this lesson the same way by experience! :10: So, no critisim I've done the same thing of sitting back and waiting because "I'd be oversteeping my boundries by suggesting (or insisting) on something."
I'm glad everything turned out well, you will be a better diver/buddy for it. Don't trust DM's; you are responsible for your own well being. And, if you do that then you can be of assitance to others. Remeber in Rescue Diver class, assess the situation are you going to be a benefit or create a second diver to rescue scenario. It sounds like you wouldn't have created a "second diver in distess" scenario from your telling of the situation.
I realize I will get some critisim for being so "straight forward" but, I've been wrong before and will be again; also, by being wrong I always learn a lesson. So, look forward to the respnes.
But, oh well the truth is the truth. And, like I said you did the right thing; except, for mentioning the 500 pound gorilla in the room during your surface interval. The 500 pound gorilla being OOA. You shoul've piped up and not worried about their ego after all he was going to be your dive buddy on the next dive.
BigboyDan:
A DM has an inherent responsibility to those who employ him/her, it's the most important part of the job, and we ALL know it.
Yeah, Yeah, diver's don't cut your check; they just give yout tips. Your employer wants to have as many people on the boat as possible. So are you saying your responsiblity is to who employs you or to the customers of your employer! Just look at at a Cruise Boat DMs; how, in the h*ck can that guy/gal be comfortable with 50+ cruise divers (normally with very little skill) doing a dive at one of the boat stops. God, knows who would be a cruise boat DM.
Refrasing your pervious statement with modifications: A DM "should" have an inherent responsiblity to those he/she dives with (not the employer), it's the most important part of the job, and we ALL know it.
You probably are one of that 15% of DM's that are totaly great. And, I think your are just by your respnses on this thread. However, you have to admit what all of us experience regularly; and, that is not encountering a DM like you but rather one like the one mentioned.