to the OP....
I skipped most of the thread since it got heated. Up to the point where I skipped, I didn't see your profile/body position mentioned. It sounds like this was a wall dive. Walls usually have current. You want to be as close to "horizontal" as possible. The more "upright" you are, the more the current will push your body. If going against the current, that can significantly slow you down. If going WITH the current, it can help you. So "---" not "/" is usually what you want.
Not to be indelicate, but body size is also a factor here. More girth means more water resistance, so take that, or ignore it if you are blessed to be thin at 69.
Also the points about kick are probably worth investigating. Most people with really inefficient kicks have NO IDEA their kick needs work. As for fins, that's a touchy topic. If you were all in the same/similar fins, then technique or body position is more likely the issue.
But, there are some fins that exacerbate certain kicking issues. I almost exclusively frog-kick, and prefer fairly "normal" long-ish paddle fins. I've had good luck with certain split fins, but others just don't work as well for me. I've tried ForceFins multiple times, and they just don't work for me at all. Everyone's mileage varies.
Good for you asking questions. You might want to do a dive with a different instructor and ask feedback. The group of instructors I used to teach with would "rotate" Divemaster candidates for the express purpose of "pointing out issues" that the candidates "usual" instructor had missed. There was always something that could be improved, and nobody took offense. If that advice isn't practical, on every dive, pick who looks the best in the water and who ends the dive with plenty of air. Those folks probably have decent technique to emulate, whether they are pros or not.
Good luck!