This thread sure seems to contain a lot erroneous information and wild scenarios.
First, I only carry my three highest cards. One for each of the different types of diving: Trimix, Cave and Divemaster. Those three can get me on any dive I’m qualified to make. I don’t carry an AOW, Nitrox, RD or any other subordinate card. I don’t even have them anymore. Wish I did though.
20 years ago, I occasionally got asked to buddy with a weak diver, but it was rare. Those days are long since gone, partially because insurance won’t cover a non-employee. Typically, only the one-man shop does things like that anymore.
I have benefited with my DM card by being given more freedom, allowed to leave the group and venture off on my own, etc. I’ve also on occasionally been invited on more advanced dives to fill a private charter.
When I was in HI, I got invited on a semi-private trip that only had one spot left. I passed because I already had a dive booked. The next day, when I told the group of locals I was diving with about it. They went nuts saying they only do that trip once a year and I should have ditched them and gone. Oh well…
I have also had the dive shop go to bat for me when some dude tried to steal my fins. I normally carry my fins back to my seat on the boat. One charter insisted on taking everyone’s fins and throwing them in a pile. It wasn’t until the next day that I realized I didn’t have my fins. The shop knew who had them, and when they called, he refused to bring them back. Fins are fins, apparently. The shop found and called his instructor and had him call him. He told him if him didn’t return my fins, he would never dive with them again. I got my fins back. He admitted to me that he knew they weren’t his fins, but he like them better. The shop made a lot of effort on that for me.