ItsBruce:
I'm amazed that it took until post #36 for someone to comment that if you were low on air you should have bypassed the safety stop. That's why its called a safety stop and not a deco stop.
And, I'm glad Rick pointed out the bit about bananas on a boat.
Yeah really.
Okay, I'm older than you are, but similar age. There's been lots of kind discussion here, and I am glad you survived, too - altho it looks like you just barely did. We can bring up my dumb **** stunt thread on this forum for comparison if you'd like, but I'm going to go for the blunt list of things I survived to learn, even diving as dumb as you did or worse.
1-I plan with my buddy - regular or new - to stop at 15-20 feet for a bubble check and valve check, make sure they're all the way open. This helps ensure we are together, too - as my natural feeling is to drop fast and hope he follows. This helps keep me with my buddy.
2-You're not qualified to do a search for a missing buddy. Don't do that again until you are.
3-Do you hold your console in your left hand? If you will, maybe you'll check your air more often. Worked for me.
4-500 psi at depth is not time to head for a Safety Stop. It's time to head for the surface. Too late to recover from that mistake. Do the slow ascent, stop diving for the day, stay close to the Oxygen kit in case needed.
5-"
I tried to manually inflate the bc, but, NEVER having done that, I could not do it now." I thot this was a required skill of OW check out dives? At any rate, don't just practice on land. My regular buddy and I are practicing in the water, too.
6-Why did you not ditch weights...?! We lose divers every year to this dumb mistake. My regular buddy and I are now grabbing our weights on every dive surface before signaling OK to stay in practice.
7-You're a diver in all that gear, not a swimmer. Don't try that again under stress - only in good conditions. When caca happens, inflate the BC and/or drop the weights, get a good floating position, inflate your Safety Sausage and wait for the boat to pick you up. If you don't have a Sausage on or in your BC, stay off the boats until you do.
Now that I've been less than polite, here is my dumbest thread from this forum...a classic:
http://www.scubaboard.com/showthread.php?t=74063