I'm more speaking in general; the whole "let's not talk about it" attitude....like maybe it will go away. It extends from even mentioning a death, to mentioning the name, to mentioning the circumstances and especially the equipment...oh, my, someone might get offended. If the only people who are "allowed" to know and discuss these things are a small group of insiders....isn't that the actual problem?
But that's not the attitude at all, at least not the point of the forum rules. The point of this forum is to discuss the specific diving related details of an accident or fatality, and to learn from that discussion. The name of the diver is irrelevant to that goal. This forum is not here to help people pass on condolences to the family.
Of course, one of the silliest statements (at least in the US) that you read here is "let's wait until the official report comes out to discuss it".
That will never happen. But it's also reasonable to wait until SOME of the details of the incident are made public, because otherwise you get useless generic speculation like in the recent Bonaire thread ("maybe it was a heart attack, maybe it was bad air, maybe it was the COVID vaccine").