Things I still haven't managed to get my head around and I really am not having a go at anyone but it does seem that more and more about the dive comes to light when i ask these questions so
FosterBoxerMom.
I am not having a dig, I just see that more and more is coming out about the dive and we are seeing more and more Facts from you.
Why did you split diving with your husband for diving with a woman you didn't know and only just met when you believed it was the responsibility of the Dive Guide to look after the safety of the divers? If it was because you didn't trust him then why did let your husband dive with him or why didn't you ask your husband to stay with you. Is he more experienced than you? Because I am sure an experienced diver having trouble breathing would after ascending 20ft not then decend again after getting his breathing under control but rather come over to you and finish the dive with his wife whom could look out for him. I don't know that's why I am asking.
Right so we now have two groups as a definitive that's good. The Dive Guide knew you and Pam were staying above the rest of the group so he knew he had 5 with him. Or was it four because he didn;t know where your husband was suposed to be. You said you weren't sure if he knew so perhaps he was only ever looking for 4 behind him assuming that your husband was above him on your group (husband and wife diving together) that you'd made clear was going to dive at a different depth. Do you see where I am going with this.
Now, aborting the dive, Why yes he could have made you all go up and surface swim back to the boat but why do that if you have lost a diver and are 10 minutes from the boat when you are going to swim back along the route you've been on and more than likely see him? after all The Dive Guide stopped at the turning and asked you where he was so he could only be behind the group somewhere not in front. Now of course, he could have been on the surface at this time and in trouble so perhaps he should have sent some of you up. But you were aware of the missing diver so he wouldn't want to send you. You would have been too valuable looking for the missing diver as you returned to the boat.
The Computer
I didn't attribute my comments on the computer to you. What I said was that an SPG and a Watch Were Good enough for you. You clearly were happy to dive without a computer going so far as to tell the guide that you didn't have one and your buddy didn't need one. the threads after yours go more into the computer.
You Asked: why would he give his computer to a novice diver to wear who was going to dive a different profile from the one the Dive Guide knew and also was going to stay down for an extra 10 minutes when the rest of the group had surfaced. It's a good safety measure I guess. He can check when you surface that you did a safe dive, ascended not too quickly and wouldn't need watching for DCS. I don't know. Then again do you think it was for some malevolent reason?
He tried to put his computer on Pam, she is saying "I don't need this. He kept doing it. I was saying she doesn't need it she is going to be with me.
All the stuff you've now mentioned about an extra 10 minutes diving for you and you doing a 30 minute dive instead of everyone elses 20 minute dive is new and only just seen in your last post. So you planned on a completely different dive to the rest of the group,
Now There is no way in this situation an experienced diver would put another diver (you) in the position of having to take all of your gear off underwater and ascending on an alternate air source from an inexperienced diver who needed you to look after her. That's not the actions of a Reasonably Prudent SCUBA Instructor. How do I know, because I am one. what qualifications do I have for this. I have been called as an expert witness as a Reasonably Prudent SCUBA Instructor so I guess if the Law courts of the UK say so then I am happy with that.
The truth might be that you were taught not to be further than 4ft away from your buddy and it's a good idea for newbie divers and inexperienced divers but it's not necessary for divers and isn't part of any written PADI Course that certified divers should follow this practice. Now I say this as I am not aware of it. I'm happy to be corrected on this
Just like the board is hearing what you believe were the events and how they unfolded. You being there is important to that. I am only saying what I believe. No I wasn't there but did get a chance before the shutters came down to talk to second hand witnesses.