Thank you for your condolences.
It is very frustrating reading everyones posts when they just keep going back and forth on dead issues.
1. It was not a recreational dive at the bottom being 140ft.
130' is considered recreational limits and most recreational tables have 140' on them for contingency planning. The flight deck of the Oriskany is one example where recreational divers routinely go to 140', and the possiblity exists for them to drop over the side in more than 200' of water.
So the DM had a GROUP and not a specific BUDDY?2. The DM took the rest of the divers as a group. No one knew anyone at that point we were all new to each other except the married couple from San Diego and I don't know if they did buddy checks or not. They were part of the DM's group. Key word GROUP.
Yes, that makes much more sense. The way I interpreted the original post was that he had no idea if he was at 100' or 140'. Thank you for clarifying that.3.My husband WAS monitoring his gauges and knows he hit 100ft, however you do not have your eyes fixed on your gauge AT ALL TIMES OF YOUR DIVE, so yes at the end of his dive as I do I look to see what my max depth was so I can log that. Do not presume that he didn't monitor his depth guages. He does but he could have gone to 104 ft or 101 who knows without that needle. Is that part clear?
Sorry, I was under the impression all of you knew each other, not just two couples.4. As stated previously, we were all strangers until we were on that boat. With the exception of I had a dive with the couple from San Diego on Friday before the fatal dive. So we all did not walk into the dive shop together sign papers together nothing like that.We did that all individually and did not run into each other as that was being done. We all met at the boat at different times. In fact we didn't even know how many people were going to be on our dive. The boat was docked on the beach and that is where we all met. We didn't know where our dive site was going to be we asked the DM and he said he didn't know yet. We all told him of our experience and then he decided on that particular dive site.
At the point where he ascended to 80', IMO, he's now his own "group," however briefly. If he's in clear view of the DM that would indicate to me that the DM may not have his attention on HIS group during this time.5. My husband had problems at the depths of 100ft breathing and ascended to 80ft, yes, he got control of his breathing within a couple of minutes and then rejoined the group. He was not a third group. And that is when the DM had stopped and turned to me and signaled "where's your buddy"? So he had a couple of mins to get control of himself and was in clear view of the DM.
I said 20-40' ABOVE the group. If the group is at 100' and you were at 60, thats a difference of 40'. If someone ascends to 80' there is 20' difference between you and them and them and the other group.6. No one was ever at 20 to 40 ft I don't know where you got that info. I never stated that. Pam and I were always at 60ft.
If you weren't on a wall, the depth doesn't increase to 300' that quickly.7. And no one knows that that Brendan had to "work" to get to the depth he ended up at. The sloping bottom as I described slopes off very fast so he could have descended very quickly without any of us noticing. No one knows and I have said this over and over except Brendan and God.
I hope that was clear enough. I can't keep going over this again. And I won't be on the boards for a few hours. I appreciate everyone wanting my input. That means a lot. I know you all are interested in this accident, but please understand that somethings you won't ever know so debating it or even speculating it is really getting to be redundant. I am over the blame issue. I have my own personal feeling and your knowledge is appreciated to give other divers perspective of what to do or not to do on a dive but rehashing this accident is not healthy for anyone. Thank you,
Thank you for the clarifications and your participation. Hopefully all the information gleaned from the anlaysis and discussion of this will help someone else and prevent another tradgedy.