I'd recommend taking a step back to work on foundational dive skills, namely GUE fundies from 8 Diving in Des Moines. It might be a cold shower for you. It was an ice bath for me. Whether you agree with the entire philosophy or not, doesn't matter. Your basic diving skills will improve. Your awareness will also improve.What you're saying doesn't not make sense but what training agency teaches this way? Since you mention "rock bottom" should I assume UTD?
The other thing I guess I'd ask is when you dive this way, does your buddy also carry one 50%? Only then would I say it makes sense since you theoretically deco together if you're using the same GF, etc etc. I mention this because the guys I do my tec dives with are all very willy nilly. Everyone's using different equipment set ups, different GF, different mixes, it makes no sense to me but they don't seem to mind. And since I'm either the student or the newbie, I'm not really in a place to speak up. But at the same time, I don't have anyone else to tec dive with.
I would not do tech dives with people with whom I do not have gasses matched. I might as well dive solo (which I only do recreationally on OC).