I am sure all agencies would be grateful to those critics if they would provide the course material that will effectively teach students to use good judgment. I am sure that if you would send them those curricular materials, they would pay you well for them.
In my misspent youth I took flight training, going as far as getting an instrument rating before circumstances changed and I moved on to other interests.
I made a number of mistakes of judgment, lady luck smiled, I'm still here.
In retrospect, a good deal of the problem was that my instructors were not effective at communicating what good judgment, in that context, actually met:
1) They did not model good judgment, all three of them having had their pilot certificates suspended by the FAA for various shenanigans.
2) They were unable to articulate their own decision-making process for determining whether a flight was safe (weather and equipment being the main variables in aviation)
3) They did not speak to the evolution of skill and did not identify experience levels at which changes in limits could be seriously contemplated.
John, to your point there are some people who will never get it, either because they're not listening, they think they're immortal, or they just don't think things through. An ideal program would identify people like that and fail them. People who care, though, they still have to be taught, by example, through case studies, and by discussing what-if scenarios.