Wow. I respectfully disagree with several aspects of your reply.
Reading through the OP's post history she appears to be OW certified with at least 17 dives, has an interest in AOW certification, is exploring options for quality dive gear, has already done a few shore dives, and all of her favorite sports involve being in the water. She also comes across as intelligent, enthusiastic, and self-confident. This sounds exactly like how my wife and I were when we made out first trip to Bonaire many years ago (except for maybe the intelligence part. LOL.) Bonaire is the perfect predictably awesome warm water location properly trained self-confident new divers to continue gaining new experience.
As an OW instructor my goal has always been to prepare my students to dive unsupervised at the completion of their OW training if they desire to do so. As an OW diver I learned this previously from my instructor. The majority of my students left my OW course with the knowledge, confidence, and experience to dive independently and unsupervised in conditions similar to their training environment. IMHO anything less reflects negatively on my abilities as an instructor. Granted, some people aren't ever well-suited for unsupervised diving but I don't see anything in the OP's posts that reflects this. In fact I see exactly the opposite.
I'm not sure what you mean about "the dive, dive, dive ethos of Bonaire". If that's your thing you can certainly do it, but there's no pressure to do so. We've enjoyed hundreds of shore dives on Bonaire and we typically only dive a couple of times a day, sometimes less, and some days not at all. The whole point of her post was to identify alternative activities to diving.
Finally, your myopic statements that "you can also get your culture fix" at some other unnamed destination and that Bonaire is "slim on culture" reflects how little you apparently understand about Bonairean culture. My suggestion would be for you to step back from your "dive, dive, dive ethos", look around a little bit, and engage the local population and culture with a little more interest and sincerity. They're great people.