JackOfDiamonds
Jewish Space Laser Operator
The main question in that example is: did that diver know that he had a history of severe sea sickness and if so, did he take steps to minimize it?
There are big differences between someone with a condition known to them who can and does take steps to mitigate it but in an emergency might still need help, someone with a condition known to them who doesn't do anything, and someone who simply has a random sh*t day and needs help.
I have never met a diver, either online or in-person, who seems to fit in the second group. I know divers in the first, including myself and every single one of us is determined to be as independent as possible to get the job or the dive done with a minimum of aid from crew and buddies (beyond the basic requirements of the buddy system).
I understand and usually support the "if you can't meet these basic levels of fitness, you shouldn't dive because of the risk to yourself and others" but so far there seems to be more worry about divers taking advantage of the help that crew and buddies give and hoping things don't go wrong.
No previous history, I dived with him several times in the past in simillar conditions and never had a problem. Might have just been a bad day or something he ate, we are unsure.
Unfortunately I can say I have met people that fit in the 2nd category you have described, albeit not many but they are out there.
Its the "that will never happen to me" approach they have which causes this.
I could be wrong but the impression I got from the thread and more specifically the person who wrote the thread is "I'm too weak to do it myself, why is it a fuss, just help me" which is something I find impossible to accept or understand.
Everything I said is obviously excluded in the case a regular diver is in an unexpected emergency and requires assistance, my problem is with the people willingly and knowingly putting themselves in a situation that might lead to an emergency given their "issue". (More specifically, putting the people who will have to save them in danger.)