Gale68
Registered
Dear fellow divers,
Im new to ScubaBoard; I just joined last night to see for myself what was being said about Corys disappearance. I was a guest on the Pilot for the December 22-29 trip. Corys co-workers are profoundly affected by the loss of their friend, but they have gone on with their work with professionalism and dignity. It has been anything but easy, and they have earned my respect.
While UnderwaterBumbleBee expresses concern about how Corys family might feel about posts here, it appears it has occurred to no one that Corys =friends= on the Pilot read this forum too, and some of the comments here have been downright cruel, especially the post up-topic that claimed they did less than their level best to find him. They did everything they could, and to suggest otherwise is completely uncalled for. Im sure each one of his co-workers will be haunted for a long time over what they might have been able to do to prevent this tragedy. I wish the Belize Coast Guard had done more to help; they arrived late, and it seems to me that if he made it to the surface he could have survived for longer than they searched, but no one will ever know whether it would have made any difference.
UBB has leveled a lot of criticism towards the Pilots crew, some related to safety and some not. I have traveled with Nekton several times, and I have never witnessed them foregoing the required abandon ship drill, nor have I ever seen them fail to use the sign-in/out board. Regarding her next point, romantic relationships happen on dive boats the world over. Ive never seen anything unusual about the way Nekton crew members comport themselves compared to other dive operators. And what does this have to do with diver safety anyway? As for the highjinks and horseplay, again, it doesnt sound like there was anything going on that would impact on safety, so what relevance does it have to this discussion? UBB says she didnt post this for people to argue about anything yet she opinionates in a very inflammatory way. Is that her way of saying she just doesnt want to hear from anyone who disagrees with her?
Finally, theres the issue of the scorn some people have directed towards those who choose to dive solo. Corys disappearance can be attributed to a combination of factors, only one of which is the fact that he was diving alone. Clearly, solo diving requires very careful consideration of safety issues, but I will tell you Id MUCH rather dive solo than be arbitrarily assigned to buddy with some of the idiots Ive had the misfortune to dive with in my life. That's a main reason Im solo-certified. I dive solo only rarely, and dive conservatively when I do.
Every dive operator has to find a balance between enforcement of safe practices and trusting the maturity and judgment of their staff and guests. I have been diving with a wide variety of dive companies, including various liveaboards, resorts, and day trippers, and I have not observed Nekton to be any less safe than the others, and more conscientious than many.
In hindsight, it is obvious that a lot of little things could have been done differently that might have saved Corys life. But no one can know exactly what happened to him, and idle speculation and disparaging comments do nothing to help matters. Im very sorry I didnt have the chance to meet and dive with him. He sounds like he was truly a wonderful person who is deeply missed by everyone who knew him, and even some of us who never had the chance. Christmas aboard the Pilot this year was a thoughtful and bittersweet occasion, and Cory and his family have been in our hearts and minds all week.
Respectfully,
Gale Mead
Im new to ScubaBoard; I just joined last night to see for myself what was being said about Corys disappearance. I was a guest on the Pilot for the December 22-29 trip. Corys co-workers are profoundly affected by the loss of their friend, but they have gone on with their work with professionalism and dignity. It has been anything but easy, and they have earned my respect.
While UnderwaterBumbleBee expresses concern about how Corys family might feel about posts here, it appears it has occurred to no one that Corys =friends= on the Pilot read this forum too, and some of the comments here have been downright cruel, especially the post up-topic that claimed they did less than their level best to find him. They did everything they could, and to suggest otherwise is completely uncalled for. Im sure each one of his co-workers will be haunted for a long time over what they might have been able to do to prevent this tragedy. I wish the Belize Coast Guard had done more to help; they arrived late, and it seems to me that if he made it to the surface he could have survived for longer than they searched, but no one will ever know whether it would have made any difference.
UBB has leveled a lot of criticism towards the Pilots crew, some related to safety and some not. I have traveled with Nekton several times, and I have never witnessed them foregoing the required abandon ship drill, nor have I ever seen them fail to use the sign-in/out board. Regarding her next point, romantic relationships happen on dive boats the world over. Ive never seen anything unusual about the way Nekton crew members comport themselves compared to other dive operators. And what does this have to do with diver safety anyway? As for the highjinks and horseplay, again, it doesnt sound like there was anything going on that would impact on safety, so what relevance does it have to this discussion? UBB says she didnt post this for people to argue about anything yet she opinionates in a very inflammatory way. Is that her way of saying she just doesnt want to hear from anyone who disagrees with her?
Finally, theres the issue of the scorn some people have directed towards those who choose to dive solo. Corys disappearance can be attributed to a combination of factors, only one of which is the fact that he was diving alone. Clearly, solo diving requires very careful consideration of safety issues, but I will tell you Id MUCH rather dive solo than be arbitrarily assigned to buddy with some of the idiots Ive had the misfortune to dive with in my life. That's a main reason Im solo-certified. I dive solo only rarely, and dive conservatively when I do.
Every dive operator has to find a balance between enforcement of safe practices and trusting the maturity and judgment of their staff and guests. I have been diving with a wide variety of dive companies, including various liveaboards, resorts, and day trippers, and I have not observed Nekton to be any less safe than the others, and more conscientious than many.
In hindsight, it is obvious that a lot of little things could have been done differently that might have saved Corys life. But no one can know exactly what happened to him, and idle speculation and disparaging comments do nothing to help matters. Im very sorry I didnt have the chance to meet and dive with him. He sounds like he was truly a wonderful person who is deeply missed by everyone who knew him, and even some of us who never had the chance. Christmas aboard the Pilot this year was a thoughtful and bittersweet occasion, and Cory and his family have been in our hearts and minds all week.
Respectfully,
Gale Mead