Hi
@Gbair89, I also posted in your other post (about the computer), and I can perceive your excitement about scuba diving from my side of the screen: it's fantastic!
However, please don't let your enthusiasm rush into inappropriate decisions.
There are some basic steps that you could take if you want to proceed in a "high performing" direction:
{A} Stop thinking about what toys to buy and how to upgrade your equipment; diving is about staying underwater, not about shopping at the local dive shop.
{B1} Forget the AOW, except if it REALLY helps you in doing dives that you absolutely feel the urge to do; instead, find a good tech instructor and do a good intro to tech or similar course (finding a good instructor is quite hard, so ask for help if you decide to go for this route). Requirements for these courses are usually relatively low:
www.tdisdi.com
www.gue.com
This mid-level Specialty Continuing Education Diver Program is designed to enable the certified diver to extend proficiency in the water and to review and...
iantd.com
There are other agencies, and you can even think about paying an instructor for a 1to1 session without receiving any card (you'd save the cost of the card itself and the fee for the agency). Depending on the agencies, you may or may not do crossover (essentially, GUE does not allow any crossover, and maybe not even UTD, but you should double-check the latter).
{B2} Find tech-oriented buddies, meaning people who already do tech dives and people who would like to do tech; dive with these people.
{C} if you are really serious about it, dive in as many different environments as possible: fresh/seawater, night/day, cold/warm, high/low visibility, no/high current, etc.
I made this list from (*what I believe should be*) the first to the last step. There are several degrees of passion for this activity, and by no means you should start at full throttle. You can instead focus on {A} at the beginning and then move to {B} (B1 and B2 are things that you can do at the same time, but I think that doing a course will open more possibilities for you).
This is no more than my personal perspective on the scuba diving world and what I would do if I could go back in time. Other people probably think differently from me, but I still thought this could help you.
EDIT: in my humble opinion, the right moment to do any further training and to buy extra pieces of (non-essential) equipment is when you are frustrated about your limits. The only exceptions are intro-to-tech/essentials/fundamentals/whatever_you_want_to_call_it and rescue courses: these should be done as soon as you are ready. Rescue requires basic comfort in the water, so it makes sense to wait a bit (discuss it with an instructor; furthermore, AOW is a prerequisite for some agencies I think). Intro/essentials/fundamentals/etc. require nothing -> do it as soon as you can.
Dive safe!