r&wc:
me and my wife are novice to intermidiate divers with 25 logged dives each,
funny... we've only got about twice that many, are AOW cert'd, and have done caverns, rivers, beaches, and boats everywhere from the Keys to Hawaii to Bonaire to Costa Rica, and YET... I wouldn't consider us anywhere NEAR intermediate divers. ESPECIALLY in the company of so many folks who have THOUSANDS of dives logged, but still consider themSELVES "average" divers. Not that your assessment is in question - I'm just making light, useless conversation. No offense meant. Your comment just made me think about our own experiences so far and how finite they seem to me. But I digress... sorry...
r&wc:
can someone help me learn what things i need to be looking at, current, tides etc?
The good news is that you're asking the right questions.
The bad news is that you probably can't get the answers online.
The best thing you could do is find/pay a local to take you out and SHOW you.
No, I'm not pitching a class or anything - though that wouldn't be a bad idea.
I'm suggesting that whether you have an experienced guide or not is going to make the biggest difference in your safety and enjoyment.
It's not so much technique I'm talking about. It's local knowledge of the site.
As you've already learned - any way you can get in/out of the water and live to talk about it is fine. Whether you crab-walk out & come in on your hands/knees, or push your gear out like a raft in front of you & slip it on while you're bobbing. The conditions are going to dictate what's smart and they're going to be different at every site.
What you really need is someone to SHOW you how the current breaks at that one spot, or where the hidden toe-crunching concrete ledge is just below the surface, or which area usually has 12 drunk jet-skiiers by mid-morning.
You could hear all about some easy beach to go to and spend the whole dive looking at nothing but sand because you didn't follow the local who knew EXACTLY where the clump of rocks is that houses the eels just 50' away.
Beg, borrow, buy some local's time who is a smart, safe, experienced diver and believe me - it will make ALL the difference in the world.
just my .02