The center to center distance on a manifold has to be at least as long as the diameter of the tanks. The old 185 mm (7.28) manifolds work OK on 7" tanks, leaving just enough room for a 1/4 inch bolt between the tanks. Clearly these won't work on larger tanks. Evad is quite right about wider manifolds working on smaller tanks, if you have the right bands.
I'm using a 215 mm Thermo manifold on a set of 5.5" diameter faber steel 46's that I've doubled up for my daughter. I just set the fixture at 215mm when I made the bands.
The "face seal" manifolds need to be matched closely with a set of tanks and bands as the manifolds are not adjustable for spacing.
The newer "barrel" style manifolds have adjusable center sections. I prefer these for just this reason. Tanks are not round, and often are not exactly on size. This effects the center to center distance. Having an adjustable manifold allows a closer fit between the two.
All my tanks have thermo manifolds. They are nominally 215 mm center to center. There is some range of adjustment above and below this figure. I've standardized on Thermo because spares are easy to source (thanks Joel, TDL) and to keep the required spares to a minimum. I have no reason to think the Sea Elite, DR, H are any better or worse.
Tobin