seaducer
Contributor
I agree, it can be very hard, especially for someone with little working knowledge of something to disagree with what they view as an authority. But in the end it is your life, don't let someone else risk it for you.But you are kind of agreeing beforehand to follow the divemaster. I know you aren't chained to them, but once you make that agreement most people find it harder to break because the divemaster then becomes an authority figure.
Doesn't change the fact that she spilled the coffee on herself. And regardless 2.8 million dollars is rediculous and 640k is not much better.That story is so misrepresented in the media. They make it sound like a lady is driving with a coffee between her legs - makes a good image in your mind. In reality it was an elderly passengeer who was just trying to get the lid open when it spilled. I used to think that case was ridiculous, but while spilling coffee on yourself is obviously going to be uncomfortable, it shouldn't cause 3rd degree burns.
Guided dives have been the least-safe diving experiences I've ever witnessed. One DM refused to surface after my buddy signaled LOA several times (we had actually hired him as a private DM in Coz),
I might have a different POV with a "private DM". Most guided dives I have been on have been 8+ divers of varying skill level on a dive boat at Cozumel, Belize, Florida, etc. In this case the DM is just a guide, holding the float, navigating between reefs, finding the swim throughs and seahorses and whatnot. Whether you look at the pretty fish he found or follow him through the hole, all that was optional and stated as much in the brief.
I did once hire a private DM in Bonaire to dive Lac Cai channel. This dive requires extensive local knowledge because of the currents, and how easy it is to get lost and washed out to sea. In that case the DM asked about ability and when the first diver hit our turn pressure we headed for the exit. Had he kept on and we had to surface in the wrong place or had we gotten lost then I would have put some blame on him, since he is the expert and setting the parameters to dive safe in this one specific condition. In this case you may as well be in an overhead because of the conditions of the site. Surfacing along the wall where you dive will blow you out of the channel and can set you on course to Venezuela.
I'd be less safe with a DM who leads without thinking of the divers behind him (note: this does not mean all or even most DMs) because if I saw a cave normally I'd never enter it. But if I'm following someone who enters it, I'm not sure what I'd do.
I will tell you what I would do. I would evaluate the conditions and determine if I have the skills and equipment to safely enter the cave. If I did then I would have to determine if I want to, or if I have some sense of (personally applied) responsibility to the diver who entered. If not, if I don't feel safe, I am more than likely staying out. if I really care about the one who went in I will try to go get them. If I don't know them I will think positive thoughts from the outside.
What you do is ultimately your choice but if you are smart you do something similar. Whatever sense of duty to your buddy you have may be enough to over ride your instincts, if say your wife or children enter. If not, and you don't think you are ready for such conditions, please stay outside. in the worse case scenario that is one less body to extract and bury. Sorry if that sounds graphic but that is what is at stake if you exceed your capabilities. By capabilitied I mean your personal limits, not what X agency stipulates for your certification level. I have a PADI Master Scuba Diver card but there are OW divers who far and away exceed my abilities.
Never let someone talk you into something you aren't ready for. Never follow a DM or anyone else if you feel unsafe. You will gain the skill and experience for all that soon enough.
And as an aside, I would like to thank everybody for a lively and passionate debate that has remained remarkable civilized