Great post, it's hard to beat experience. I'm not currently "solo diving", however, I am preparing to become a solo diver, by getting my gear together and practicing in the pool . No one has it perfect the first time, I have a lot to learn.
My thought is, ultimately, time can be the difference between life and death. In other words, given a specific OOA, you may have at the most, X seconds before your body must satisfy the urge to breathe, whether it's water or the air in your tank, your body will attempt to breathe. I don't want to purposely eliminate any of those X seconds if my life might depend on it.
What if your buddy had knocked your reg out on an inhale, ut oh, you just inhaled water and are choking violently...would you rather reach to your necklace or deploy the system (turn on valve, remove reg)?