I think you mean you are not MASSLESS. If you put a scale under you, it would not measure anything if you are neutrally buoyant, so you ARE weightless.
Sorry, but can't help you with your numbers (apparently not a "Typical Male diver" at 205lbs). But with a 6.5mm semi-dry suit and full gear (Al80), I need about 34lbs, I think.
marky-d
You're definitely not weightless, you are pushing down on the water with the amount that Earth's gravity exerts on you. The water itself, while "neutrally buoyant" also has weight, that's why pressure increases as you go deeper and can be measured with a pressure gauge, the equivilant of a scale to tell you how much everything above you weighs.
As for the question - what in the world are you trying to figure out? We already know the diver's weight vs. buoyancy can be equalized, otherwise we'd all sink to the bottom of the ocean. If you're really trying to figure out what I think you are, you're going to need volume as well, otherwise I don't see this going anywhere.
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