Most of the recreational divers I know would have nothing to do with gas management. They are more than happy to dive follow-the-leader dives, and they see no need to learn anything. I do not refuse to dive with them, however, I make it a point to go over a gas plan each time they dive with me. Gradually, they warm up to at least the *concept* of gas planning, even if not the arithmetic.
For a few of them, being exposed to gas planning opens their eyes, and soon enough, they're actually doing their own gas planning (for fun, even!). A few of them decide to despise gas planning and have nothing more to do with it. The rest, who form the majority around me, will likely never work up their own gas plan, but once their eyes have been opened to the dangers their lack of knowledge exposes them to, they are more than happy to dive with logical gas plans -- they just have to get them from somewhere.
Computers that provide gas consumption estimates are nice, and rule-of-thumb tables are great, too. I even printed up some dogtag-size ascend-by-X-psi charts, laminated them, and hand them out to people who listen to my gas planning talk and decide they want something better than "ascend at X" or "be back with Y". For an occasional diver strapped to an AL80, that small amount of knowledge is enough to help knock them out of the OOA-candidate group.
Personally, I find it inexcusable when I encounter a DM/instructor who can't calculate gas management, but while a purely recreational diver would certainly benefit from the knowledge of how to run gas management numbers, using pre-calculated tables is perfectly reasonable for them. (They should just teach two sets of tables: dive tables to prevent DCS and gas consumption tables to prevent OOA.)