Salient: Every time we lose a fellow diver, it hits all of us hard, cavers, rec divers, bubble blowers, etc. When accidents happen and a fatality results, I often think "how can I learn from this". This is why this board is so valuable.
I would never presume to know Ben on a personal level, because I don't. Most of us reading and writing in here do not also. But, as the saying goes, Actions Speak Louder Than Words.
I have read here that Ben was involved or headed up an organ donation organization, and that speaks volumes about his giving personality and desire to help others. This is the side of Ben that you know. OTOH, his actions on Wednesday speak of another side of him. Possibly, the Throw Caution to the Wind side. This is the side of Ben that divers now know and he is now putting other's lives at risk. I feel strongly that Ben would not have wanted this, but out of respect for his family and friends, strangers have been attempting very dangerous things to give closure. I respect them immensely for that.
If this thread were about my family member or close friend and I was not a diver, I couldn't read it. Please try not to be offended by this discussion. We are all heavy hearted over this tragedy.