cl1115:
For all my logged dives, i would go on 2 tank trips which doesn't need planning, so I never got to apply my PADI dive planner/chart reading skills.
Actually they do need planning at some level, and I doubt anyone was stopping you from doing so. "Vacation" diving doesn't mean you can or should check your brain at the dock. Following the DM for their knowledge of the site or critter spotting skills is one thing, but you should always keep track of your own decompression status, whether you use tables or get a computer.
Granted, for 2 dives per day, even if they are led by different DMs, you'll generally get away with it for most diving of this sort - especially if they're short and shallow like you're talking about. If they're not short and shallow, or you're not really sticking with the DM, or the DM isn't diving such a conservative profile after all, or the DM is using Nitrox, or the 2nd DM is not accounting for the 1st dive, or the DM is an idiot (occasionally happens) - maybe not. If you do 4 dives possibly led by 4 different DMs you really have no idea where you stand.
So while lots of people do 4 or more dives in a day, if you don't keep track of your own NDLs, and can't figure out on your own if the dives you're asking about are safe, it's too many for you.
As far as night diving, it's really hard for anyone to guess from the information you give but carlcz listed some good things to think about. A 6pm 2-tank sounds like it may be a dusk and a night dive. Not a bad way to start night diving, especially if both dives are on the same site and you get a chance to get familiar with the area while there's still some light. But as a new diver, I'll bet you're pretty wiped out by the time you get to that last night dive.