I am exactly the same. I hated the feeling of tightness that a jacket type gave me. I felt it actually affected my breathing due to constricting my chest.I do know some divers that love the jacket style for the same reason i hate them, the squeeze. The two people I mentioned both like it as a form of comfort as they were not the most calm people when they started to dive.
Like always being hugged underwater.
My BP&W has none of that feeling.