Wow, what an active thread! I had forgotten about it… here are some thoughts:
1) I got the "doctor" badge on my SB profile automatically when I was asked to be a medical moderator. Of course, this doesn't mean that my opinion is always correct, and I am careful to restrict my moderator-type posts to areas where I have some expertise. However, I think that it is useful when plowing through a long, detailed thread to have some sort of annotation like this, especially for people new to the board who might not know all the locals…
2) One of my pet peeves is when I am seeing a patient, and my front desk staff breaks in and says "Dr. So-and-so is on the line, and he asked for you to be interrupted". I will OCCASIONALLY do this to another doctor if there is some sort of emergency, and I can't wait for a callback at the end of the day. But then I pick up the phone and the guy (who I don't know, and who often isn't an MD) says "Oh, HI! Remember my kid, you saw her two months ago? Well, she had another ear infection, what should we do?".
3) Another of my pet peeves is luxury cars with MD plates on them. For some reason, they tend to get keyed… wonder why?
4) I introduce myself to patients and their families as Mike. Most people like that, but I guess some don't. Hey, who wants to pay all that money just to see "Mike"..?
5) I think that an attorney forum would be a great idea. I find this stuff fascinating, and even though the law does vary from venue to venue, general comments and perspective are always helpful. I have been running kidsent.com for 12 years now, have several thousand threads with people about patients that I will never see, but I have found that GENERAL comments and local referrals are VERY helpful, even if I can't actually diagnose or treat anyone online…
6) English surgeons do NOT like being called doctor, from what I recall. I did my OB/GYN rotation at the Royal Free Hospital in London (years ago), and this is what I remember. You are a "doctor" when you are at the intern/resident level of training (house officer, and maybe registrar), but when you become a qualified surgeon (a consultant) you are a "mister" again (unless you are academic, in which case you are a professor).