I have a 40 lb back pack stuffed with medications, all kinds of metal and plastic that I can shove into natural or man made orifices, a cardiac monitor that does 12 leads, measures all kinds of vital signs and delivers therapeutic electricity in a number of different ways.KMart and Ray,
This reminds me of something Reggie Ross taught me during my ITC. "Look at your student carefully. If they don't look like a diver, figure out why!" and then he always kept talking about the 'Spidey Sense' you needed to develop as an instructor. When I saw Fred and Mary, they just didn't look like normal tourists. They were obviously stressing and him being on the ground at that angle was all wrong. While I had suspicions that this was a stroke, I KNEW that they needed medical help beyond my meager abilities.
In Florida it cost you nothing, zero and nada for an ambulance to arrive at your door and assess you. They only get to charge if they administer anything other than advice and/or transport you to the nearest hospital. If in doubt, call it in. Denial is not just another river in Egypt, but rather an epidemic here in the USA. Mind you, Mary was not in denial, I don't think. But this event blind sided her and she was confused as I've ever seen. Confusion and denial are pretty debilitating. Pick a course of action and follow it through.
As for being the 'ray of hope', I think a lot of first responders miss how important that is. I remember as a kid in Boy Scouts a Patrol Leader telling his buddy not to freak out about the cut on his finger, because if he goes into shock he might very well die. It was frickin' hilarious to see this poor kid's face go white with real fear at that point. The Patrol Leader was teased incessantly about his faux pax as long as he was a part of Troop 25. Be a part of the solution and never add to the problem.
That being said; if I forget to bring calm with me into a scene I am no help to anyone.
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