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I'm not PADI, but I would be disinclined to accept her as a student. I can't protect my student if I don't know what's happening with them. What if the doctor gave her a pass on type I diabetes? Most doctors have no clue why people on insulin shouldn't dive. Trust goes both ways. You don't have to trust me, but that means I can't trust you. Have lots of fun learning Scuba: just not from me. Again, this is not a PADI answer.
If trust goes both ways, would you supply the student with your medical form upon request, and provide them with answers if they want details on boxes that you've checked "Yes"?
Remember, while you certainly have more diving experience than the student, they're still your spare air supply, help to get you to the surface, into a boat, etc. in case you have a medical issue. This is particularly true in cases where you are instructing someone who's already certified.
Whether it was from an instructor or an insta-buddy, if I was questioned on my medical fitness -- casting doubt on my honesty in getting a medical consult and completing the form accurately -- I think I'd appreciate the other person's diligence and concern for safety (mine & theirs)...and I don't think I'd want to dive with them.
Disclaimer -- I was happy to be your student, and felt it was valuable, and would be glad to do it again. I didn't question your health, but I'm certain that an honest completion of the form would have at least one "Yes" box...as does mine.