I am also aware that my practice of selling cylinders after about six or seven years is conservative... I do so out of concern for the buyer... and because I can afford to be cautious.
When I teach a VIP course, I tell participants that in the final analysis, if they would not be comfortable sitting on a tank as it is being filled, they should not pass it. Ridiculously conservative? Possibly. But I would like to see all cylinders filled in containment stations. Odd perhaps, but I'm okay with that label.
You sell off (not recycle) 6 or 7 year old cylinders? Selling something with 3 or 4 years left before the 2nd hydro is required. I assume you are doing that to maximize the used value? What exactly is your concern for the buyer here? They aren't good enough for you to use anymore but they are good enough for someone else who's less well off financially - but can still afford to pay a decent price?
Best practice for filling cylinders is of course containment. But even without containment you don't go maximizing your risk just because you "feel like" its safe.
The contradictions in your personal practices and risk aversion are definitely strange to me.
(for the record I have a number of 3AL cylinders on their 3rd or 4th hydro. All are 6016 aluminum. I VIP and fill them myself, but I don't sit on them)