fndmylove:
Since so many of you experienced guys are saying this, I do agree that there is probably much I don't know. But what things might I not know, will save me in an emergency?
Seems to me (and I am a new diver as well, so take it for what it is worth) that it is a combination of both what your do/don't know, and experience underwater. One can be taught, another is earned by paying your dues. I think what a lot of the experienced divers on this board are driving at is the latter . . . build experience (and you probably have a head start because of your freediving experience).
Listen to Bob (Grateful Diver). While I am biased because he is my instructor, I can say he is an exceptional teacher and diver, and also has a genuine interest in helping build a safer dive community.
FWIW, I trend more towards the DIR approach of doing things (I don't consider myself DIR) but that isn't the point. One of my regular dive buddies has thousands of solo dives under his belt, and I NEVER worry about him when he is on his own. He's also a good buddy when we dive together-and has spent the last few months focussing on building better team skills. Personally, I like the team approach, and may never solo dive. But, I'm not going to look down or dis people that solo dive. I don't have the wisdom, experience, credibility or the need to do so. That being said, lots of people who do possess that wisdome and crediblity have made some pretty compelling arguments in a civil manner here, and I'm glad to see you are listening. It takes a lot to set aside your ego and sit up and take notice.
The one thing I will contribute is I thought I was just figuring diving out around 50 dives, and the last 25 make me realize how little I actually know . . . and I think all experienced divers go through that phase. Being squarely in it may be a bad time to take up solo diving.