I find this thread fascinating, but don't entirely buy the distinction between "trust me" dives vs. personal responsibility. To my way of thinking, ALL diving requires a significant amount of "trust me", while the personal responsibility part is mostly about deciding who and when you should trust.
As a beginner, I currently feel comfortable diving to ~40 feet in calm areas of Puget Sound. I do not yet believe I am equipped to dive safely in strong current, or to 100+ feet. Does choosing and sticking to these limits make me personally responsible? Kinda… but my definition of what these limits are comes entirely from trusting others...
Choosing the right threshold between safe and unsafe behaviors is all about risk management. But it is impossible to accurately judge risks based only on personal experience, for many reasons:
- This is a highly noisy signal, which means a large data set is necessary for precise measurement
- At least when diving safely, the accident rate is extremely low, which further increases the amount of data necessary to correlate specific behaviors with increased or decreased risk
- Individuals prefer not to have to die multiple times in order to determine which behaviors are unsafe
- Individuals judging risk based on personal experience are massively vulnerable to rounding error of the form "I did this twice already and was fine, so it must be safe..."
So we fundamentally have to trust in the collective experiences of others.
Taking this another step, I have also not spent the time to dig through first hand data about diving practices and accident rates, collate trends, and derive my own conclusions from first principles. Instead, I trust in the results of experts who have already done that for me.
Even another step, I am not sufficiently well informed to judge for myself which experts are wise and insightful vs. loud mouthed idiots. Instead, I trust in a combination of authority and collective wisdom. I can sanity check this result by comparing multiple sources (luckily, my instructor and training handbook pretty much agreed about everything, as did scubaboard when I later discovered it) - but fundamentally I am still just trusting what others have told me.
I don't see this as a bad thing - but every dive I've made so far has relied on trust far more than personal experience. Is following the words of people who are not actually diving with me fundamentally that different to following a divemaster in person? I wonder how much of personal responsibility really just comes down to choosing wisely about who to trust. And for a beginner, choosing wisely gets difficult in the seemingly all too common case where an instructor doesn't follow guidelines, etc etc.