I'm sorry but really a good rule for the GUE community would be to force people who've taken a fundies recently to shut the f**k up, both when speaking about diving in the community or online.
I've seen it a lot. They manage a rec or (god forbit) a tech pass and now suddenly they are gods diving creation put on this blue planet to tell everybody how to improve. Yes it is a hard course, yes you learn a lot that you'll use the rest of your diving carreer, yes it really is an achievement to get a pass, but you are not special...
You have orders of magnitude more experience than myself on meeting/discussing/interacting with other divers, so I cannot challenge your perspective.
To my very limited epxerience the past 2 years of diving, and the last year as a diver that got some taste of the kool-aid, I have not seen a GUE diver at any level not being humble. Especially when I am diving with other GUE-F buddies, together or as part of a mixed group, we focus more on how many mistakes we did, and how many things we need to work on, than what other divers did. 100% of the "bullying" and boasting I have seen is from non-GUE divers, especially in the presence of other divers with H's on their harness. Albeit, most of my buddies and I might live in the "academic bubble" and meeting the GUE divers you describe might be unlikely, but the last days in the forum in several threads we had maybe like 1 post that had some underlying "elitistic" attitude supporting GUE, while we had many more bashing indiscriminately GUE divers, or even rationalizing and supporting such toxic behavior. But I digress.
I certainly don't belong in the class of people that believe they "mastered scuba" from a 4-day class, but I certainly see myself in the category of people that according to you should shut the f**k up (newly certified and express my perspective), thus it might make sense to answer to the second person of your last sense as it was partially intended for me. If not, cool, feel free to skip the next paragraph:
I never even came close to believe that I am special or anything when it comes to scuba after my GUE class, and I can comfirm the same for the 100% of GUE-F divers I have met. Maybe a small sample, still factual truth. I am best-case a mediocre diver that thanks to GUE and few dives of incredible instruction I am able somehow perform the basics to an OK degree. I truly believe that after GUE-F I have better position in the water (hover) than 90-95% of the non-GUE recreational divers I have seen, and a good majority of dive professionals unfortunately. In fact I truly believe that if every diver was going through the same or similar process, trained to reach similar standards, I will be mediocre or below, even at recreational level. So this says nothing about myself, it says a lot about others. When I emphasize this estimation from my side, I don't boast, I rather feel extremely sad for the state of the dive market, that a mediocre newbie that didn't know how to not silt a rocky bottom, after 3 dives of good instruction can hover better than professionals that TEACH and CERTIFY other divers, and that a good chunk of them cannot stop bushing GUE (the reason I developed such skill). It's not that I am special or became a God... It's the fact that many dive instructors ask for our money to teach skills they have not developed after years of being professionals, while any newbie needs only 3-4 dives to master them in a greater level. This is extremely unprofessional, and as a costumer that is constantly advertised and pushed to trust such professionals in several LDS, I would say I have some right to not liking the situation.
Is GUE the only organization developing such basic skills? DEFINETELY NOT. I have seen superb instructors, DMs, and divers from other organizations ("DIR"-like or not) that had solid skills themselves to a degree that I will never realistically reach.
Is every GUE diver passing through the GUE-F process special? OF COURSE NOT, and I am a prime example of that. GUE-F divers are, in my opinion, what the bare minimum should be for a diver that will not get themselves most probably into big trouble, while also be able to respect the environment and their buddies, and enjoy scuba. I am not referring to the philosophy which is a subjective matter (solo vs team oriented, etc) but the skills that could be measured objectively.
Does a professional that cannot meet the standards of GUE-F when it comes to skills (buoyancy, trim, etc), teach literally any person to scuba? My answer is an emphatic NO. It's unacceptable to not be able themselves master skills in their multi-year thousands-dives experience that a newbie can do in 3-4 dives. I was being "taught" and "evaluated" during my PPB segment of my AOW class while hovering in place, by an "experienced" instructor that couldn't control his buoyancy and had to grab objects to remain neutral. That professional got my money.
It's amazing to me how the community is willing to give a pass on the last point to many. I have taught in the university in the past, and I will most probably do in the future. Can you imagine if a single of my students is taking my class (a subject that I have been studying and working on since before they entered college and highschool), and ending up knowing the material of my class they are been graded upon better than myself, just because they watched a 40 minutes video on youtube? Should I expect them to show me any respect? Would I feel comfortable judging their capabilities? Could by any means justify my payment that comes from their high tuition? Would you feel safe as a patient if I was training medical doctors?
I hope we all agree NO, but somehow, this is acceptable in the current state of the scuba community, where you get labeled as elitist/narcisist by some if you mention it, and you are forced to accept all the outcomes of poor instruction, in yourself and your surroundings.
I never judged other divers. I judge other professionals, something also known as consumer consciousness.
I'm going to quote Bob (grateful diver) again because he said it best "
You see that in all endeavors ... it's human nature, on the day after losing his virginity, for a guy to strut around acting like he invented sex.
... Bob (Grateful Diver)"
Might fit well for many, and I would agree for the obnoxious type of GUE-F diver that I have not encounter yet. But in this context, the way I see it, using this analogy, the newly sexualy active person was paying in the past for the advice of other virgins that have best case hit the first base, yet presenting themselves as womanizers. Then he discovers after his first intercourse that actually they don't know even the basics they claim to. This guy simply would switch to people that have some actual experience that can improve his enjoyment during sex. He doesn't feel special for having sex, a bare minimum standard for most humans, but sad that the aforementioned virgins continue affecting with questionable advices (due to their objective incompetence) how other people see sex, like he did also in the past.
P/S: Your response said nothing about the entire argument of my last response, thus I assume there was no disagreement.