No matter how hot she is, it will hurt later.
-- Oh, did I ever learn this the hard way, haha, best bullet point advice yet.
Here are a few of my own:
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. Most charities are a scam. Pure money games. Connect with people who have pure hearts and noble altruistic intentions - as far as community service is concerned and help them directly. When in doubt, write a cheque directly to those in need.
. All religion is a sham. Another set of pure money games. Read and ponder the story books; yet authentic spirituality is in the experience of discovery (i.e. scuba diving, sky diving, travel, driving long distances and going off the beaten path). You will truly be amazed at what you discover in terms of people, items and events. Awakening begins with forgiving yourself, liking yourself, and learning to love yourself - FIRST. There may be some belief purging and mental reprogramming, and it may be challenging; yet once established with beliefs that empower you and thoughts of your own best interest in mind, it will all be worth the effort. All else falls into place after that... once you realise you are a divine being having an earthly human body experience. All the guidance and power you need for you to move forward in that which most excites you, originates from within.
. Politics, all of it, is bullsh@te. forget about voting and siding with one party vs another. Its all for someone to gain access to the cashflow. Focus on what interests you; do not bother with which the "herd" concerns itself. Forget about reading newspapers or watching TV. Put your focus, attention, effort and invest time in that which provides passionate reaction and attraction. Do not worry about what is to become of those pursuits that excite you; follow your heart, and use your head to discern which is the better of any set of choices at the moment.
. Get off sugar; refined and HFCS. You will notice mental, emotional and physical improvement once the cravings subside.
. Stop concerning yourself with what others think; What they think and their opinion of you is not any of your business. If your presence is not celebrated, then give the gift of your absence.
. All satisfying outcomes begin with a deep passionate, authentic desire; which are nurtured with continual focus upon the vision; not concerning oneself with the "how", only on the what, why, being flexible on the who, where, when... and each day doing at least one thing which brings oneself closer to the end result.