Lisa, you are asking great questions.
You've gotten a lot of information about what people look for in a dive buddy. But to address your issue about your friend, if you don't feel confident enough of your own skills to dive with another beginner, then don't. That's exactly how I felt after I got certified, so I did my first twenty or so dives with much more experienced people. Then I finally did a real simple dive in a familiar site with one of my classmates, and we were SO stoked when we finished it, and felt like we had really accomplished something.
But just because you may want to delay diving with your friend, doesn't mean that you guys can't eventually end up being dive buddies. Eventually, if you stay hooked on this sport and dive locally, you're going to want to find someone who wants to dive as much as you do; who will dive under the same conditions you will; whose diving STYLE matches yours; and who is fun to be around and to dive with. Your friend may well turn out to be that person, even if he isn't what you need right now.
You've gotten a lot of information about what people look for in a dive buddy. But to address your issue about your friend, if you don't feel confident enough of your own skills to dive with another beginner, then don't. That's exactly how I felt after I got certified, so I did my first twenty or so dives with much more experienced people. Then I finally did a real simple dive in a familiar site with one of my classmates, and we were SO stoked when we finished it, and felt like we had really accomplished something.
But just because you may want to delay diving with your friend, doesn't mean that you guys can't eventually end up being dive buddies. Eventually, if you stay hooked on this sport and dive locally, you're going to want to find someone who wants to dive as much as you do; who will dive under the same conditions you will; whose diving STYLE matches yours; and who is fun to be around and to dive with. Your friend may well turn out to be that person, even if he isn't what you need right now.