What Ever Happened To Personal Responsibility ??

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H2Andy:
"the lawyers never tell you that bankruptcy follows you around for 7 years (or is it 10?) and you won't even be able to get a loan for a cup of coffee"

they should tell you that. if they don't, they're not doing their jobs (now, there's
a surprise)

i also am troubled at the abuses of the bankruptcy process. as it was intended
and drafted, i think it's a good thing. however, any good thing can be missused,
and i think bankruptcy is being misused.

this is my 2 cents: the problem lies with aggressive lending by financial institutions.
they make their money nicely by the huge interest rates they charge most of us.
i don't feel too sorry for them. they know what they are doing, and they are not
losing money.

Sad but true but the thing that comes to my mind is two wrongs do not make a right. Never has and never will.
 
H2Andy:
"the lawyers never tell you that bankruptcy follows you around for 7 years (or is it 10?) and you won't even be able to get a loan for a cup of coffee"



An old girlfriend, just to prove a point, filed bankruptcy and then got a $118,000 home loan less than two years later. She had to shop around but it wasn't that tough. She was in a low wage job at the time, now she's an unemployed student. Last year she refinanced the same property for $211,000. go figger. Immediately after bankruptcy she was flooded with credit card offers. It seems there's really little downside to bankruptcy. She's had to pay a little higher interest rates, but that's chicken feed compared to what she saved by bailing on the original debt.
 
Here (the UK) its unfortunately getting into ridiculous blame someone else culture and its really irritating me.

Hot water dispensers for coffee and tea have a warning "Caution:- Hot water" and so on.

The main forum has 2 or 3 threads about personal responsibility so dont want to repeat at length my thoughts in here other than to say i think people should look after themselves and if they make a mistake not immediately look to blame someone else.

If i fall down some steps outside and they arent broken then its my fault, nobody elses.
 

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