Why would your wing size have anything to do with the suit buoyancy? You aren't buying the wing to lift the suit, the wing is to lift the weight of the gas consumed on the dive. No other function.
If you're on a single thats about 3kg / 7lb of lift. Double that for surface buoyancy and suit compression at depth and you're up to about 15lb. Its plenty.
The wetsuit will lose between half and two thirds of it's buoyancy at depth, depending on the depth. So the wing needs to lift that 16-22 lbs of buoyancy loss, plus up to 7 lbs. of gas consumed in the cylinder. That is 22-29 lbs.
It also needs to float the rig on the surface without me in it. That is SS BP (6 lb.), STA (6 lb.), steel tank (10lb.) and regs. That number comes close to 27 lbs.
The Halcyon 40 lb. wing is not much larger than the 30 lb and the additional effect on drag is minimal. I'm going with the 40 lb wing.