Please quote where anyone has specifically called you a coward or a liar. This quote should contain a form of the verb "to be". You have inferred this from statements only to play the martyr card, and no one buys it but you. I even made fun of your proclivity to take offense where none was given. Give it a rest, man. No one has insulted you, but you have done more to harm your reputation in this thread than everyone else combined.<snip more of the same>
Without wishing to jump into the larger dogfight (I've made my opinions on the adequacy of current OW training by the major agencies clear on several occasions), I will take exception to your statements above.
No, no one has specifically said "Wayne, you're a liar." OTOH, Wayne's claims have been specifically described as lies by Diver0001, and he has been described as taking the cowardly way out by you. To take the first case, since a lie is a
deliberate mis-statement or falsehood intended to deceive, one would have to assume some form of immaculate conception for these lies if Diver0001 wasn't accusing Wayne of being a liar. Are we to believe that these 'lies' just appeared spontaneously on their own, with no connection to Wayne?
Now, if Diver0001 had just labeled Wayne's claims and statements as false or untrue (i.e. wrong, mistaken, in error), then he would be disagreeing with Wayne's statements without applying an intent to deceive to them. But as I've read this thread, Diver0001 (and you) have accused Wayne of deliberately making false statements to support his agenda (which you claim is PADI bashing). What other inference can be drawn by anyone with an understanding of plain English, other than that you are calling him a liar?
As to your use of the term 'cowardly', that seems to me to be slightly more of a gray area, although again since you were ascribing a motive to an action , i.e. for Wayne "to play the martyr", how else can it be understood if not that you're calling him a coward?
Now, if I say that someone's argument is idiotic, I may not be calling someone an idiot; we all say or do idiotic things on occasion. OTOH, if someone is constantly advancing arguments that I find idiotic, I may well think they are an idiot but decline to say so directly, letting my opinion of their arguments say so for me (with some minimal reading between the lines).
So, to conclude, your statement that
"You have inferred this from statements only to play the martyr card,
and no one buys it but you. I even made fun of your proclivity to take offense where none was given. Give it a rest, man.
No one has insulted you, but you have done more to harm your reputation in this thread than everyone else combined."
is incorrect. I 'buy' it, he has been insulted by you and Diver0001, and I don't find that Wayne has harmed his reputation in this thread. I wish I could say the same for you and Diver0001, because prior to this I have valued both your input and various discussions we've had, as we've always been able to disagree while remaining civil.
Wayne has stated his view of his past experiences with PADI, and the conclusions he has drawn from them. They may be out of date, they are certainly filtered through his own biases (as is everyone's), but I believe his opinions to be honestly held, whether I agree or disagree with them. I do not believe that truth can be described as 'bashing', but you are free to dispute that what he claims isn't the truth. I haven't found the arguments you, Diver0001 and others have advanced in contradiction to Wayne's claims convincing, but then I'm filtering them through my own biases and experiences so that's not surprising. Nevertheless, prior to this turning into a personal slanging match over the past 10 or 20 pages, I thought this thread was quite useful, especially for newbies. I know it's well trodden ground for those of us who've been around for awhile, but for someone coming to it for the first time it can be quite an eye opener.
So, I'd just like to ask that all of you leave off the personal insults if you wish to continue the debate: by all means marshal your facts and make your arguments, but leave the ad hominem attacks out of it.
Guy (SSI OW/AOW, and considered both certs inadequate for my local diving)