Me, too. Went with a oxycheq wing and SS bp as my first rig (after 12 dives total) about 15 months ago and have no regrets. Most of any lead needed goes in cam-band pockets, which really helped with my trim. A few more pounds of lead go in ditchable pockets on the waist belt, but as others have said, ditchable probably isn't necessary (unless you're unconscious and overweighted at the surface.) I've taken it on 4 trips by air thus far in checked luggage. I'll probably get a lighter plate someday (and use more lead when I travel), but hasn't been a deal breaker. The 38# wing is way more lift than I need for single tank, but frankly it's not that much larger physically than the 28# and I doubt there's much difference in drag. A smaller wing might pack more easily I suppose.
And the bigger lift means I can use this rig for my upcoming dives with back mounted doubles when I do a deco procedures course next week (Sorry, had to sneak that in - I'm really amped about it!)
Unlike some wings, the oxycheq doesn't require a STA for use with a single tank.
I've mainly used it with wetsuits, but have done a handful of dives with a new drysuit without adjusting it. It worked okay, but the thicker suit and undergarment made the shoulder straps tighter and this may have slowed getting the air bubble to the dump valve on the left arm (I'm still not sure about that one.)
One last thing: My wing is fluorescent orange, which I consider a big advantage over boring black. I want to be as visible as possible to my buddy and to the boat when I'm on the surface. No ninja diving for me.