Alibi 2 -- It would be quite interesting to know what actually occurred on this trip -- how much time did your husband's team spend in the water -- were they first in/first out? -- IF there were tech teams doing deco, were they first in/last out? -- etc.
Also, was it really the result of the tech teams that caused your husband's buddy to get seasick or was it just that he got seasick? In my only time diving in MB there were a couple of people on board who were very quiet the whole time -- turns out they were both seasick almost from the getgo (one I learned later pretty much gets seasick thinking about a boat ride!).
I think your BASIC observation is correct -- everyone on a boat should have a good idea of the parameters of the diving -- for example, 45 minute total run time, 60 minute, whatever -- which is something the Captain needs to make clear. On the various boats I've been on where there were mixed teams (tech and rec) I've generally used the rule to let the tech guys go in first (more room for me to kit up) but that also generally means I'm one of the last back on the boat (generally, last in/last out) but even IF I'm last in/first out, the times pretty much even out.
The key is NOT to forego diving a "mixed boat" but just to make sure the diving times are rationalized. (Not to mention, IF you are susceptible to motion sickness, use a patch!).
Alibi 2 -- Query -- Would your husband (and in rebound you) have been so upset had the buddy NOT gotten sick and left your Instructor husband with a ding bat insta-buddy?
Finally some smart questions,,,thank you!!..first let me reclarify the reason for this post..
#1 Hubby was NOT upset with the dive and never had a problem with the Cypress Sea...we like the boat and captian and have dove with him before..we like all the dive boats...heck ,,hubby is a Captian himself and we are locals..so we know the locals...
There were other divers who were upset before the boat left the harbor because of all the tech divers on board and how much time would be spent sitting on top...waiting..my hubby at first thought they were just being jerks..
then he saw the wait time...and the sea was lumpy which made some ill....there is a long wait for tech divers...and those with scooters that go so far away from the boat you can hardly see them...with all the gear it takes longer to get in so usually the other divers with less gear are in first...and they just drop down the anchor and don't travel off to a further local to dive..
Let me say again Hubby was never upset about the dive (he didn't get sick)...but he did learn something,,, and this is the only thing Im trying to say,,,this group were tech divers..thats what the main dive plan was...hubby and buddy jumped on at the last minute ...they werent comfortable with the longer wait in rougher seas but that is not the tech divers fault or the fault of the dive boat...that is the fault of hubby and buddy for not checking about what the dive plan was before going out...
The only thing I was trying to say was that if you are uncomfortable diving with tech dives then find out what the dive plan is and dive with a boat that is doing a plan your comfortable with..if you hop on a boat that is going out to do tech dives then expect a longer surface wait and don't get made at the divers or boat and crew...
i have been told I will feel out of place to post here and that I should stick with my own but living here at the ocean and diving about every weekend I thought I might be able to give some positive feed back on conditions,,ect..now and then...but the nasty remarks to just plain stupid remarks this post has generated has me thinking, I'll stay with my own, those who love to dive and teach, and help others to have a safe and happy experiance...
I have found the Patch not a good plan for some ...it is meant for multi day trips...and I get a really bad reation to it ,,Migraine, vomiting, fever..I get car sick very easy but have found that if I can breath compressed air I don't get sick.....but there is a new prescription med called Scopace...it is the same med in the Patch but you can control the dose to a signal dose, and my hubby has great results with only 1/2 a dose..