Pepsi once bubbled...
Anyone that is in need of a buddy either
a) Does not have the proper equipment to feel safe on there own
b) Does not have proficiant water skill to swim without someone else, or is just not in condition to save their own life- and certainly not someone elses.
c)need a buddy as a security blanket because of the unknown (a.k.a. the big shark simdrome)
d) all of the above
I'm sorry to be harsh, but I have a real problem with your comments. If you feel like Mr. Perfect Diver, fine. Don't expect to say something like that without getting flamed in return...
I dive with a buddy. I like to dive with a buddy. I feel safe with my buddy because we preplan, coordinate, and execute as planned, not because he's a security blanket. I survived Navy Water Survival school with flying colors - got the swim part covered. I do an ops check on EVERY peice of equipment I have just before stepping into the drink - not worried about that. I'm frikkin proud to say I dive with a buddy!
People with attitudes like yours SHOULD be diving solo because they tend to kill team members. There are countless accident reports and black box recordings of pilots who ignored protests from copilots and navigators and killed everyone on the plane because they thought everyone else playing by the rules were weenies. (remember the B-52 pre-airshow crash? - textbook case of arrogant ignorance of rules and crew coordination)
You have no idea how much my blood pressure rises when I read or hear comments such as yours.
If you are ever on my boat in Cozumel, please tell me who you are before departure so I can take another one!
Jim