love2godeep:
The divemaster of course was nearly a nervous wreck by the time they found me, imagining the worst. She later chided me for two things:
I didn't even take the time to read the other replies. I'm so tired of this stuff that not only do I have to avoid the local dive sites but when I read this kind of stuff I want to travel the world shaking people until they get it...so anyway here's some things that you should remind this so-called divemaster of.
1. For not going ahead and going deeper while I was down there. (Apparently so that I would be satisfied that I got my "deep dive.")
I don't know of any agency who allows a student to do an AOW deep dive solo. A clear standards violation and you should report this idiot to the agency immediately. Even if you had completed the skills they don't count unless evaluated by an instructor.
Was this person a DM or an instructor? I don't know of any agency that permits a DM to teach an AOW deep dive.
A breifing is required for every training dive with every agency that I know of.
Anything beyond 60 ft can count as a AOW deep dive so even if there was an instructor present there was no need to go deeper.
2. For wasting time doing the safety stop. She said it wasn't necessary since I was down only a short time.
A safety stop is never a wast of time especially after an 80 ft dive and is in fact a required part of an AOW deep dive.
Were these, in fact, errors on my part?
Your mistake was diving with a non-diving dangerous idiot.
Here are some things I believe I could/should have done:
1. I should have reminded the divemaster that I might have trouble with my ears, and might have to take it slow.
It's good to warn your buddy of such thing but....There's still no issue when buddies descent together keeping an eye on each other throughout the descent. Ascents and descents are among the most likely times in a dive to have problems ad divers are too often alone when they happen...like you were.
Don't hire an instructor until you verify that they understand how to manage a descent!
2. I should have followed my better judgment and gone up after one minute.
The time to call it was as soon as you realized they weren't paying any attention to you. You were solo from then on. Well, without a breifing I guess you were solo before you entered the water.
3. Even though the divemistress was preoccupied, I should have clarified with her that she was my buddy. (Although I don't think this would have made much difference in this case, because by my observations of this girl, who really is very sweet, probably wouldn't have noticed that I wasn't keeping up.)
Unless you intent to dive solo, don't ever get in the water unless the dive has been briefed and every one understands.
When we dive one of us is designated as leader and that person breifs the dive. Then every one in the team takes a turn to add, question or cleasrify.
I'll write more about my whole AOW experience somewhere else; but just would like to hear your take on this experience.
Cheers!
Well that's my take.