the point is that the suit restricts the whole bodies ability to move because it is thicker, denser neoprene. The dry zippers if don't properly don't restrict anywhere near the amount of movement that the suit does.
I dive dry probably 95% of the time, and have been for 6 years, with a P-valve. I don't always hook it up for dives under about 2 hours, and my suits last quite a long time, so do the seals. Maybe I treat my wetsuits properly, but they are all the same.
The thermalution is still a better option than a thicker wetsuit for this situation. Active heaters are better for the body than just increasing the neoprene. By going to a semidry you significantly reduce your comfort for the whole dive to gain a bit of warmth at deco. You're too hot for most of the dive which is bad because it promotes ongassing, and/or restricting movement which makes you generally uncomfortable compared to a 3mm. Huge advantage to drysuits in that you can just inflate them a bit at the end of the dive to warm up and gain the thermal advantages when you don't need to worry about moving around because you're on deco. The thermalution *Which btw I don't have nor have I used* allows you to stay in a 3mm, and just flip a switch and warm up on deco. That's about as perfect a solution as it gets, and costs the same as a good 7mm wetsuit.
Neo Tek Semi Dry - Dive Right in Scuba
Neotek, $400 *Most in the $500-$600 range
Pinnacle Cruiser 7mm Mens | Dive Right In Scuba - Plainfield, IL - Dive Right in Scuba
Pinnacle 7mm, $250 *cheapest I could find, most in the $400-$500 range
Amazon.com : Thermalution 70M - Heated Undersuit : Wetsuits : Sports & Outdoors
Thermalution 70m, $500. Bit more expensive, lot more versatile.
So that is my opinion and why. Why do you think that a thicker wetsuit is better? Here is why I think a thick wetsuit is idiotic in this situation.
Cons of a thicker wetsuit. Have to carry more lead, they only have AL tanks in mexico so you now have to carry likely 30lbs of lead to sink a thick wetsuit plus two AL80's. You also lose most of that at depth when the suit compresses, so now your wing is stressed and you are diving an unbalanced rig which is not safe in open water, and certainly not safe for the cave if the wing fails. He is doing deco which means he is going deep, deeper means he loses that thermal thickness advantage until he comes back up, but with a heated undergarment he can just flip a switch and warm up if he needs to for a minute.
Deep dives in wetsuits just aren't smart or safe. If you're diving deep and need to stay warm, dive dry, plain and simple, it is a safety concern. If you're in this situation, a 3mm is perfectly adequate considering their water temp, and if you need a bit of a thermal boost that you can't get from a good hood, then go with something that is heated and not have to worry about the buoyancy issues and hassle of carrying a boatload of extra lead when you don't have to